The Spark Idea Library
Pick an organization similar to yours. You will see six ways to ask, with a few examples of each: the exact post, what happens next, and the moment it changes how you see your members.
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Nurses associations · Quick play
“One tap, no names: after a hard shift, who do you talk to?”
My partner · Another nurse · Nobody · My dog
612 nurses answer in two days. 54% tap “Nobody.” Underneath, a nurse of nineteen years writes: “I honestly thought it was just me.” Forty people reply to her before lunch.
“My annual survey has never asked that. My members carry it home alone, and I run the one room where they could put it down.”
Nurses associations · Quick play
“We can take one bill to the capitol first this session. You decide.”
Safe staffing ratios · Penalties for assaulting a nurse · Limits on mandatory overtime · School nurse funding
2,100 vote in three days. The assault bill wins by a mile. One comment: “I was punched in March. I voted from the same ER.” On lobby day she comes along and tells the committee herself.
“I have been guessing my members’ priorities from a board of twelve. Now I can tell a legislator that 2,100 nurses picked this fight, and bring one of them with me.”
Nurses associations · Quick play
“Nurses Week budget. What should we spend it on this year?”
Tote bags again · A proper dinner for night shift · Sending two nursing assistants to nursing school · A quiet room at convention
Nobody picks the tote bags. Seven in ten pick the two nursing assistants. In the fall, Tanya and Luis start nursing school with a card signed by 900 nurses they have never met.
“For years I bought gifts for people who would rather send a colleague to school. They told me so the first time I asked. It took one tap.”
Nurses associations · Ask and help
“First code tonight. My patient died. I can’t stop shaking. Does it get easier?”
Posted at 3:12 a.m. by a nurse seven months in. Forty nurses answer before sunrise, because night shift is awake. One of them, 22 years in, had ignored every newsletter for eight months. She writes: “It doesn’t. You get stronger. Call me.” The new nurse marks it Thanked.
“At three in the morning my office was closed. My members weren’t. New nurses are the first to leave, and the only people awake to catch them are my own members.”
Nurses associations · Ask and help
“I retire in June after 38 years. I know things that aren’t in any textbook. I can offer an hour a week to any new nurse who wants it.”
By evening, nine new nurses have said yes. She writes back: “I was afraid nobody would.” By August she is running a Tuesday call that new graduates plan their week around.
“We only ever asked her for dues. She had thirty-eight years to give, and we were about to let them leave with a cake.”
Nurses associations · Ask and help
“My mother is dying in a hospital three states away, and I’m the nurse in the family. I don’t know how to just be her daughter. How did you do it?”
Thirty replies by morning. A hospice nurse writes: “Take the badge off at the door. Let her nurses be her nurses. You hold her hand.” Two weeks later she posts again: “I held her hand. Thank you all.”
“My members spend their lives caring for strangers. Nobody takes care of them when it’s their turn. Last night thirty of them did, and it happened under our roof.”
Nurses associations · Challenge
“Two photos: why you became a nurse, and today.”
Everyone who posts is featured. Nobody is ranked, and nothing goes up until you approve it. Alicia posts herself at seven, in a hospital bed, a nurse holding her hand. The second photo is this year: scrubs, same ward. Her caption: “I was a patient here before I was a nurse here.”
“I hunt for that story every Nurses Week. She has been a member for eleven years. Nobody asked.”
Nurses associations · Challenge
“Post a photo of the nurse who trained you. One sentence on what she taught you.”
Ninety photos in a week. Six different nurses post the same woman: Bernice, 79, retired, membership lapsed three years ago. Someone shows her the screen at her kitchen table. She rejoins that afternoon and comes to convention in the fall.
“My retired members are dying to know they mattered. The proof was sitting in my members’ phones the whole time.”
Nurses associations · Challenge
“3 a.m. Empty your scrub pockets. One photo.”
Trauma shears, saline flushes, half a granola bar, a child’s drawing. One nurse posts a crumpled note from a patient’s daughter. Her caption: “I’ve carried this for six years. On bad nights I read it in the supply room.”
“I thought engagement meant getting them to read what we write. In one night shift they made something truer about this profession than my communications team has in a year.”
Nurses associations · Guess and reveal
“Guess the average number of patients per nurse our members reported last month. Lock it in. Reveal Friday with the full staffing report.”
4 or fewer · 5 · 6 · 7 or more
1,100 nurses lock in a guess and come back on Friday. Most guessed low. The report that usually gets forty readers is opened 1,100 times, and three members ask to testify.
“My staffing report used to be a PDF for legislators. This Friday eleven hundred nurses were waiting for it, because they had a guess riding on it.”
Nurses associations · Guess and reveal
“Guess: how many times did one nurse solve another nurse’s problem in here this year?”
Under 100 · 100 to 300 · 300 to 600 · More than 600
Posted two weeks before renewal notices go out. 600 members guess. The answer is 847, because Spark counts every reply marked Solved. The most common guess was “Under 100.”
“Every year my renewal letter lists benefits nobody reads. This year it opens with one number, and they already care about it, because they guessed it wrong.”
Nurses associations · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many years of nursing are in this community, all added together. Reveal on stage at convention.”
Under 10,000 · 10,000 to 25,000 · 25,000 to 40,000 · More than 40,000
The number goes up on the big screen: 41,260 years. The room goes quiet, then stands. The newest nurse in the room, nine weeks in, is asked to stand beside the longest-serving, 51 years.
“I have been selling membership as discounts and education hours. What they belong to is forty-one thousand years of people who know exactly what their day was like.”
Nurses associations · Build together
“One line for Ruth. Forty-one years on the oncology floor. She retires Friday.”
Two hundred nurses write one. “She stayed with my patient so I could cry in the supply room.” “She taught me how to sit with a family.” It is printed, every name on it, and handed to her at convention.
“We were going to give her a plaque. Her nurses gave her a book. And everything she taught them is finally written down.”
Nurses associations · Build together
“One line for the nurse starting her first night shift tonight.”
180 lines by the weekend. “Eat before you’re hungry.” “The night supervisor is scarier than she looks. She is also the one who will save you.” It is published as The First Night Shift, every name on it, and sent to every new graduate who joins.
“My welcome packet is a login and a bylaws PDF. My members just wrote the thing every new nurse actually needs, and signed it.”
Nurses associations · Build together
“The patient you still think about. One line. No names, no details.”
Nothing is published until you publish it. “He asked me to stay until his son got there. I stayed.” “She called me her angel. I was 23 and terrified.” 300 lines, read in silence at the opening of convention.
“Every nurse carries one. For the first time they had somewhere to put it down, together, and it was us.”
Nurses associations · Goals, shared and weekly
“Six nursing students can’t afford their licensing exam. 500 taps and our sponsor pays all six.”
A shared goal, one tap each. The bar fills in a single night shift. At convention, six new nurses walk on stage and thank “the five hundred.” Everyone who tapped gets one word: Unlocked.
“My sponsor used to buy a logo on a tote bag. This year they bought the best moment of my convention, and 500 members believe they made it happen. They did.”
Nurses associations · Goals, shared and weekly
“Dana, a night nurse in District 4, lost her home in Tuesday’s flood. 500 taps and the foundation releases its emergency grant today.”
A shared goal. The bar fills in four hours. Dana has the grant by dinner. Under the post, a dozen members write the same thing: “I didn’t know we had an emergency fund.”
“Our emergency fund takes a committee and three weeks. My members moved it in four hours, and now every one of them knows it exists for them too.”
Nurses associations · Goals, shared and weekly
“This week: welcome three new graduates. Tap each time you do.”
A weekly goal. Nobody is ranked, and a missed week never costs a night-shift nurse anything. Jasmine, nine days a member, gets three messages. One is from a nurse on her own unit: “I’m on tonight. Find me at the desk.”
“New nurses are the first to leave, and all we ever sent them was a membership card. The welcome they needed was three sentences from someone down the hall.”
Real estate associations · Quick play
“One tap, no names: how many closings did you have last quarter?”
None · One · Two or three · Four or more
438 agents answer. 52% tap “None.” Their social feeds say they are crushing it. Underneath, Kevin, six years in, writes: “I honestly thought it was just me.”
“One tap told me the truth. Half my members are one bad quarter from leaving the business, and an agent who leaves the business leaves us.”
Real estate associations · Quick play
“One class this fall. You pick.”
Buyer agreements clients will actually sign · Surviving a slow market · Staying safe at showings · Social media that isn’t embarrassing
Safety wins by a distance. One comment: “A man followed me through an open house last spring. I never told anyone.” Sixty agents sign up in a day.
“I have been scheduling whatever our vendors offer for free. My members just told me what they are afraid of.”
Real estate associations · Quick play
“The awards dinner has always honored sales volume. Should we add one?”
Keep it as it is · Rookie of the Year · Mentor of the Year · Best Save of a Deal That Was Dead
Mentor of the Year wins in a landslide. The first winner is Gloria, a broker of 30 years who has never once made the top-producer list. The room stands for her for a full minute.
“We have ranked these people by production for forty years. The person they most wanted to thank had never been on our stage.”
Real estate associations · Ask and help
“Seven months in. No closings. Savings almost gone. Should I quit?”
Twelve veterans answer overnight. One of them had ignored every association email for eight months. She answers this in an hour: “My first year I sold one house. To my mother. Call me.” He marks it Thanked. He closes his first deal in month nine.
“Agents who quit the business quit us. Nobody saves them because nobody sees them go. Last night twelve of my members saw one.”
Real estate associations · Ask and help
“Maria lost her house and her office in Sunday’s fire. Six clients in escrow, no laptop. I can offer a desk and a spare room. Who else?”
Within the hour: a laptop, a car, three more spare rooms, a transaction coordinator for a month. Maria does not miss a single closing. She marks the whole thread Thanked, one reply at a time.
“My members compete with each other every day of the year. They had never had a place to be colleagues. Now they do, and it has our name on it.”
Real estate associations · Ask and help
“My client’s mother is 81 and moving across the state to be near her grandchildren. She’s frightened. Who do I trust there?”
A member in that town answers in ten minutes: “Send her to me. My mother made the same move. I’ll drive her around myself.” The sale closes in March. Both agents get paid, and the client sends a photo of her mother on the new porch.
“I have never been able to say what membership is worth in dollars. One post, one referral, and that member just earned back ten years of dues. She knows exactly where it came from.”
Real estate associations · Challenge
“Two photos: your first closing, and the one that meant the most.”
Everyone is featured, and you approve each entry. Carmen posts 2004: handing keys to a young couple, a toddler on the dad’s shoulders. The second photo is last month: handing keys to the toddler. She is 24 now.
“I spend a fortune telling the public what an agent is worth. The proof was in my members’ phones. Nobody asked.”
Real estate associations · Challenge
“Your worst open house. One photo, one sentence.”
It becomes the most-commented post of the year. Doug, a top producer, posts a tray of cookies in an empty kitchen: “Forty-eight cookies. Three hours. Nobody came. I ate eleven.” New agents pile in underneath with their own.
“My rookies think everyone else is winning. Forty veterans just showed them the truth, and made them laugh doing it. That is the day a new agent decides to stay.”
Real estate associations · Challenge
“The deal that almost died. How you saved it, in three sentences.”
Thirty entries. Aisha’s: the appraisal came in low on a veteran’s first home, so she called the lender, the listing agent and the seller’s daughter on a Sunday. “He got his keys on Veterans Day.” The ten best become a class that fills in a day.
“My best education was never in the catalog. It was in the war stories my members tell each other at the bar. Now it is written down, with their names on it.”
Real estate associations · Guess and reveal
“41 days on market. 2.9 months of inventory. Median price $612,000. Which of our four counties is this? Reveal Friday with the market report.”
North County · South County · The Valley · The Coast
700 agents lock in a guess, and the arguing in the comments is the best market commentary of the month. On Friday nearly all of them open the report.
“My market report used to be a PDF nobody opened. Now it is the answer to a bet, and agents hate losing bets.”
Real estate associations · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many referrals members sent each other in here this year. Reveal with your renewal notice.”
Under 50 · 50 to 150 · 150 to 300 · More than 300
The answer is 312, counted from every referral request marked Solved. Most members guessed under 50. Under the reveal, agents start doing the math out loud on what 312 commissions are worth.
“I used to defend our dues with a list of benefits. This year I sent one number, and my members did the math for me.”
Real estate associations · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many homes the people in this association sold this year, all together. Reveal at the installation dinner.”
Under 3,000 · 3,000 to 6,000 · 6,000 to 10,000 · More than 10,000
The number goes up behind the podium: 11,482. The room is quiet for a second, because nobody had ever added it up. Then someone says it out loud: “That’s eleven thousand families.”
“We hand out plaques for individual volume. Nobody had ever told these people what they did together.”
Real estate associations · Build together
“One line for Frank. Broker for 44 years. He hangs up his license Friday.”
160 agents write one. “He split his commission with me the year my mother was sick.” “He told me the truth about my first listing. Kindly.” Printed, every name on it, handed to him at the awards dinner.
“We were going to give him a plaque. His agents gave him a book.”
Real estate associations · Build together
“What I wish someone had told me before my first listing appointment. One line.”
140 lines. “Don’t talk about yourself for the first ten minutes.” “Bring a tape measure. You’ll look like you know something.” Published as The First Listing, every name on it, and handed to every new member with their lockbox key.
“New agents wash out in two years, and my welcome kit is a key and a login. My members just wrote the survival guide, and signed it.”
Real estate associations · Build together
“A buyer asks: why do I need you? Your best answer, one line.”
90 lines in a weekend. “Because the inspection report is 60 pages and I know which two matter.” The 20 best become a one-page handout, every author credited, and agents start carrying it to appointments.
“We paid a consultant for talking points nobody used. Ninety members wrote better ones in a weekend, and they use them, because they are theirs.”
Real estate associations · Goals, shared and weekly
“A local teacher can’t afford to live in the town where she teaches. 500 taps and our title sponsor funds her down payment.”
A shared goal, one tap each. The bar fills before lunch. In the spring she gets her keys, and the member who handles the sale waives her fee. Everyone who tapped gets one word: Unlocked.
“My sponsor used to buy a banner at the golf tournament. This year they bought the story my members are still telling.”
Real estate associations · Goals, shared and weekly
“Three families lost their homes in the Ridge fire. 300 taps and our sponsor covers their first month’s rent.”
A shared goal. The bar fills in two hours. At the next meeting one of the three families comes to say thank you, and brings their kids.
“When the fire hit, my members wanted to do something, and all I had was a press release. Now I have a button.”
Real estate associations · Goals, shared and weekly
“This week: introduce yourself to three new agents. Tap each time you do.”
A weekly goal. Tyler, five weeks licensed, gets three messages. One is from the top producer in his building: “Coffee Thursday. I’ll show you my first-year numbers. They were terrible.”
“What a new agent needs most is proof that the people at the top started at the bottom. It costs my top producers one message.”
Teachers and educators · Quick play
“One tap, no names: how much of your own money did you spend on your classroom this year?”
Under $100 · $100 to $500 · $500 to $1,000 · I’ve stopped counting
1,900 teachers answer in two days. Most tap “$500 to $1,000.” One comment gets 300 likes: “I thought I was the only one hiding receipts from my husband.”
“I lobby for school funding with a number from a national report. I just got my own number, from my own members, in two days. And 1,900 teachers found out they are not the only ones.”
Teachers and educators · Quick play
“Sunday night. No names. What are you feeling?”
Ready · Tired already · Dread · I love this job and I’m exhausted
The last answer wins by a mile. Under it, Marisol, eleven years in, writes: “That last one. I’ve never seen it written down before.”
“Every survey I have ever sent made them choose between loving the job and being worn out by it. The truth was both. Nobody had ever offered them that box.”
Teachers and educators · Quick play
“We get one priority at the state board this year. You decide.”
Smaller classes · Planning time that can’t be taken away · Paid student teaching · Fewer standardized tests
Planning time wins. One comment: “I’ve covered someone else’s class during my planning period 41 times this year. I counted.” She testifies in March, with the count.
“I would have bet on salaries. They picked time. I almost spent a whole legislative session on the wrong fight.”
Teachers and educators · Ask and help
“October of my first year. I cried in my car again today. Does it get better, or is it me?”
Sixty teachers answer by morning. Ray, 27 years in, writes: “October is the worst month of the worst year. I cried in a Buick. Come and eat lunch in my room Thursday.” She marks it Thanked. She is still teaching in June.
“The teachers who leave, leave early, and they leave alone. Sixty of my members just told one of them she is normal. No program I run has ever done that.”
Teachers and educators · Ask and help
“I retire in June with 31 years of lesson plans, 900 classroom library books and a rocking chair. Who’s just starting out?”
Keisha, a first-year teacher two towns over with bare shelves, gets all of it. The chair comes with a note: “Read to them in it. That’s what it’s for.”
“We only ever asked her for dues. She had a whole classroom to give, and the teacher who needed it was already one of our members.”
Teachers and educators · Ask and help
“A student told me something today I can’t stop thinking about. I’ve reported it exactly as we’re supposed to. How do you carry this home?”
No details are shared and none are asked for. Twenty veterans and a school counselor answer. “You did the right thing. Now call someone tonight. Here’s my number.” She marks three replies Helpful.
“We train them on the reporting form. Nobody trains them for the drive home. Last night my members did.”
Teachers and educators · Challenge
“The note you kept. One photo. Cover the name.”
Hundreds of crumpled notes and crayon drawings. Mr. Dorsey posts one from 1998: “You were the first person who said I was smart.” The student who wrote it teaches fourth grade in the same district now, and replies.
“Every one of my members has a drawer with one of these in it. It is the reason they stay, and in all these years I never once asked to see it.”
Teachers and educators · Challenge
“Two photos: your first classroom, and this year’s.”
Mrs. Patel posts 1994: a bare room and a nervous smile. In this year’s photo a young woman stands beside her. “She sat in my second row in 2009. This year she is my student teacher.”
“We are desperate for new teachers. The best recruiting poster in the state was taken in room 114, and nobody asked for it.”
Teachers and educators · Challenge
“Open your desk drawer. One photo. No explanation needed.”
Granola bars. Spare mittens. Deodorant. A sewing kit. Crackers. One caption is six words long: “None of this is for me.”
“I have spent years trying to explain to legislators what teachers actually do. One photo of a desk drawer did it better than my whole testimony.”
Teachers and educators · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many students the members of this association will teach this year, all together. Reveal on the first day of school.”
Under 100,000 · 100,000 to 250,000 · 250,000 to 400,000 · More than 400,000
The answer is 412,000. It goes out at 7 a.m. on the first day of school, and teachers send it to each other from their classrooms all morning.
“I have been describing us as 5,000 members. We are 412,000 children’s Tuesday mornings. That is the number I am taking to the capitol.”
Teachers and educators · Guess and reveal
“Last week we asked, no names, how many hours you worked. Guess the average. Reveal Friday.”
40 to 44 · 45 to 49 · 50 to 54 · 55 or more
2,000 teachers guess. The answer is 53. Most guessed lower, because everyone assumes they are the only one working Sundays.
“When I say 53 hours to a legislator, it is a statistic. When two thousand teachers guess it and most guess low, it is a story, and it is ours.”
Teachers and educators · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many members of this association were once taught by another member. Reveal at the conference.”
Under 25 · 25 to 75 · 75 to 150 · More than 150
We asked first, with one tap. The answer is 214. At the conference they are asked to stand and find their teacher. It takes ten minutes, and nobody minds.
“This profession hands itself down, person to person. I have never been able to show it. Two hundred and fourteen pairs just stood up.”
Teachers and educators · Build together
“One line for the teacher starting her first year on Monday.”
400 lines. “Learn the custodian’s name before the principal’s.” “Don’t grade everything. Nobody tells you that.” “Keep snacks. Not for you.” Published as The First Year, every name on it, and mailed to every new teacher in the state.
“My new-member packet is a lanyard and a discount card. My members just wrote what every first-year teacher needs to hear, and put their names on it.”
Teachers and educators · Build together
“One line for Mrs. Alvarez. Thirty-six years of kindergarten. She retires in June.”
300 lines, some from members she taught. “You taught me to read. I teach first grade now.” It is read aloud at her retirement, then handed to her, bound, every name on it.
“We were going to give her a plaque and a gift card. Three hundred people gave her proof.”
Teachers and educators · Build together
“The thing a student said that you will never forget. One line. No names.”
“You’re the only one who noticed I got a haircut.” “Is it okay if I call you Mom by accident?” 500 lines become a small book. The association leaves a copy on every legislator’s desk.
“I could not write a better argument for this profession if I tried for a year. They wrote it in a weekend, one line each.”
Teachers and educators · Goals, shared and weekly
“Eighty first-year teachers start next month with bare walls. 800 taps and our sponsor sends each one a classroom starter kit.”
A shared goal, one tap each. The bar fills in a day. In September eighty new teachers open a box with a card inside: “From 800 colleagues you haven’t met yet.”
“My sponsor used to pay for a booth nobody visited. This year eighty brand-new teachers know their name, and 800 members feel responsible for how those eighty turn out.”
Teachers and educators · Goals, shared and weekly
“Sixty of our members buy snacks for hungry students out of their own pay. 600 taps and our sponsor stocks those sixty drawers for the whole year.”
A shared goal. It started with the desk drawer photos. A sponsor saw them and asked how to help. The bar fills in an afternoon, and sixty teachers stop paying for other people’s breakfast.
“I found out my members were feeding children out of their own pockets because of a photo challenge. When a sponsor asked what they could do, for once I had an answer that was not a logo.”
Teachers and educators · Goals, shared and weekly
“This week: write three sentences to a teacher who is new this year. Tap when you’ve sent them.”
A weekly goal, run in the first week of October on purpose. A first-year teacher named Ben gets three notes from strangers. One says: “If you’re thinking of quitting this month, that means you’re doing it right. Message me.”
“We lose them in October of year one. Three sentences from a stranger who has been there is the cheapest retention program I will ever run.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Quick play
“One tap, no names: how long are you waiting on money you’ve already earned?”
Under 30 days · 30 to 60 · 60 to 90 · I’ve stopped counting
640 contractors answer. Nearly half are waiting more than 60 days. One comment: “I thought I was the only one covering payroll with a credit card.”
“From the outside my members look fine: trucks, crews, signs. Half of them are one slow-paying customer from missing payroll. Now I know what our next class is, and our next bill.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Quick play
“The training center can buy one thing this year. You pick.”
A second welding booth · An EV charger rig · A heat pump trainer · A fall-protection scaffold
Fall protection wins. Under the result, one line from a roofer: “My brother fell in 2019. Buy the scaffold.”
“I was about to buy what the manufacturer’s rep was pushing. My members voted for the thing that sends people home at night.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Quick play
“No names: when did you last ask another contractor for help?”
This month · This year · Years ago · Never. We don’t do that.
58% tap the last one. Under it, Tony, a second-generation electrician, writes: “My dad never asked anybody for anything. It nearly cost him the business.”
“These people will drop everything to help a competitor and will never ask for help themselves. My whole job is to make asking normal. Now I know where I am starting from.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Ask and help
“A customer owes me $38,000 and has stopped answering. Payroll is Friday. Has anybody been here?”
Fourteen replies by night: how to file the lien, a lawyer’s name, and one from a man he has bid against for years: “Been there in 2011. Call me tonight. You can borrow my bookkeeper for a week.” He makes payroll. He marks it Solved.
“Contractors go under quietly, one bad receivable at a time, and then they stop paying dues. Fourteen members just kept one in business. I didn’t even know he was in trouble.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Ask and help
“My knees are done and I’m selling the company. I’ve got 40 years of how to bid a job without losing your shirt. I can offer Saturday mornings at the supply house. Coffee’s on me.”
Twelve young contractors show up the first Saturday. By spring it is thirty, and the supply house is buying the coffee.
“The most valuable thing in my association is inside the heads of the people about to retire. We were going to let it walk out the door with a plaque and a golf shirt.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Ask and help
“My daughter is 19, she’s good, and she wants into the trade. I don’t want her treated the way I saw women treated in the 90s. Who runs a shop I can trust?”
Three shop owners answer in an hour. One is Linda, a master electrician: “Send her to me. I’ll make her better than both of us.” She starts in August.
“We have a labor shortage and a recruiting budget. The answer turned out to be a father asking where his daughter would be safe, and my members answering in an hour.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Challenge
“Work nobody will ever see. One photo before the wall closes.”
Perfect panels, pipe runs like sheet music. Everyone is featured, nobody is ranked. Ray posts a stud with two sets of initials on it: “My father taught me to sign inside the wall. His are next to mine on this one. Nobody will see it for fifty years. I know it’s there.”
“These people do beautiful work and then bury it. I run the only place where the people who understand it can see it.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Challenge
“Two photos: your first truck, and what’s in the yard today.”
Sal posts a 1989 pickup with a magnetic sign. The second photo is six trucks, and a man leaning on number four. “He started out sweeping my floor in 2004. He owns a third of the company now.”
“Every kid who has been told the trades are a dead end should see that photo. My members have hundreds like it. Nobody asked.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Challenge
“The tool you’d never sell. One photo, one sentence.”
A grandfather’s level. A hammer with a taped handle: “My dad’s. He died on a Tuesday, and I used it on Wednesday because the job had to finish.”
“I thought my members came to us for code updates and an insurance discount. They came from fathers and grandfathers, and they will stay with anyone who understands that.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many apprentices our members are training right now, all together. Reveal at the banquet.”
Under 200 · 200 to 500 · 500 to 1,000 · More than 1,000
The answer is 1,312. Every shop thought it was one of a handful. At the banquet the apprentices are asked to stand, and they take up half the room.
“Everyone says nobody is training the next generation. My members are training thirteen hundred of them, and until tonight not one of them knew they were part of something that size.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Guess and reveal
“Guess the average age of a master plumber in our state. Reveal Friday with the workforce report.”
42 · 47 · 52 · 57
It is 57. Most guessed 47. Under the reveal, four shop owners ask how to take on an apprentice before the week is out.
“My workforce report was written for legislators. This time every member had a guess riding on it, and the answer scared four of them into training somebody.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many hours our members gave away this year building ramps, fixing furnaces and rewiring homes for people who couldn’t pay. Reveal Friday.”
Under 1,000 · 1,000 to 3,000 · 3,000 to 6,000 · More than 6,000
We asked first, one tap, no names. The total is 9,400 hours. Nobody had ever added it up, because nobody here would ever bring it up.
“These are people who will never brag. I had to turn it into a guessing game to find out they gave away nine thousand hours. That is my next press release, and my next ask at the capitol.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Build together
“One line for the kid starting his apprenticeship on Monday.”
220 lines. “Fifteen minutes early is on time.” “Buy good boots before good tools.” “Ask. The guy who doesn’t ask is the guy who gets hurt.” Printed pocket-size, every name on it, and handed out with every apprentice card.
“We hand a new apprentice a rulebook. My members just handed him forty years of how not to get hurt.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Build together
“One line for Big Mike. Pipefitter for 46 years. He hangs it up Friday.”
170 lines. “He caught my mistake before the inspector did, and never told a soul.” It is handed to him at the hall, bound, every name on it. He starts reading it standing up and has to sit down.
“We were going to give him a watch. A hundred and seventy people gave him the last word on his own career.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Build together
“The mistake that taught you the most. One line. No judgment.”
“I trusted a handshake on a $60,000 job.” “I didn’t lock out the panel. I was lucky. The next guy might not be.” 200 lines, published with names as What It Cost Us, and read aloud on day one of every safety class.
“Safety training is a slideshow everybody sleeps through. Two hundred members just admitted their worst day in one line each. An apprentice will remember that.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Goals, shared and weekly
“Twenty apprentices can’t afford their first set of tools. 500 taps and our supplier buys all twenty.”
A shared goal, one tap each. The bar fills over a weekend. At the banquet twenty apprentices hold up twenty tool bags, each with a card inside: “From 500 people who started where you are.”
“My supplier used to buy a banner at the golf outing. This year twenty kids will remember their name for the rest of their careers.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Goals, shared and weekly
“A veteran on Oak Street can’t get his wheelchair through his own front door. 300 taps and our sponsor pays for the materials. We supply the hands.”
A shared goal. The bar fills by Thursday. Eleven members build the ramp on Saturday. He rolls down it himself before the concrete truck has left.
“For years I tried to get members to volunteer, and I was asking for a whole weekend. It turns out you start by asking for one tap.”
Skilled trades and contractors · Goals, shared and weekly
“This week: call one contractor you haven’t talked to in a year. Just check in. Tap when you’ve done it.”
A weekly goal. One call reaches a roofer whose wife died in the spring. He hadn’t told anyone in the trade. The caller shows up Saturday with lunch and stays four hours.
“This trade goes quiet when things are bad. The cheapest thing my association can do is make sure somebody calls.”
Small business networks · Quick play
“One tap, no names: did you pay yourself last month?”
Yes, in full · Some of it · No · Not for a while
390 owners answer. Four in ten tap “No” or “Not for a while.” One comment: “I thought I was the only one on Main Street faking it.”
“At our mixers everybody says business is great. One anonymous tap told me the truth, and told 160 owners they are not failing alone.”
Small business networks · Quick play
“The city is giving us one request for the downtown plan. You decide.”
Free two-hour parking · Better street lighting · Finish the construction before December · A Saturday market
“Finish the construction before December” wins with 380 votes. The director walks into city hall with a number instead of an opinion. The barriers come down on November 20.
“I used to speak for my members based on whoever complained loudest at breakfast. Now I speak with a number.”
Small business networks · Quick play
“Henderson’s Hardware closes next month after 61 years. How do we send them off?”
A party on Main Street · A full page of thanks in the paper · A scholarship in their name · All of it
“All of it” wins by a landslide. Four hundred people come to the party. Mr. Henderson says six words into the microphone and has to stop.
“When a business closes here, it usually just goes dark one Monday. My members voted to make sure sixty-one years didn’t end that way. That is what we are for, and I had forgotten.”
Small business networks · Ask and help
“I have to lay off two people on Friday. They’ve been with me nine years. I’ve never done this. How do you do it without hating yourself?”
Forty owners answer, and every one of them has had that Friday. Two ask for the employees’ résumés. Both are hired by other members within two weeks. She marks it Solved and writes: “I slept last night.”
“My members carry things they can’t say to their staff, their bank or their spouse. I run the only room where forty people know exactly what that Friday feels like.”
Small business networks · Ask and help
“I’m closing my bakery after 22 years. I have two ovens, a mixer, and everything I learned the hard way. Who’s just starting out?”
Priya, 26, is opening a café four blocks away. She gets the ovens at cost and the advice for free. “She comes in on Tuesdays and tells me what I’m doing wrong. Best hire I never made.”
“When a member closes, we take them off the mailing list. She had twenty-two years to hand to someone, and the someone was already a member.”
Small business networks · Ask and help
“My biggest client just walked. That’s 40% of my revenue. I need introductions, not sympathy.”
Nine introductions by Friday. Two become clients by the end of the quarter. He marks both replies Solved, and renews for three years at once.
“People join for business and we give them breakfasts. This is the first time I can point to the exact day membership paid for itself.”
Small business networks · Challenge
“Your first dollar. A photo of it, or of the day you earned it.”
Framed dollar bills, handwritten receipts. Rosa posts a 2009 photo of a food truck with two kids in the window: “They did their homework in that truck for three years. One of them is my accountant now.”
“Every business on this street started as somebody’s terrifying idea. I had been treating them as logos on a sponsor banner.”
Small business networks · Challenge
“Two photos: opening day, and today.”
An empty storefront and a folding table. Then fourteen employees out front. “Opening day I sold nothing. I went home and told my wife it went fine.”
“New members think everyone else had it figured out. Forty opening-day photos just told them the truth, and they needed to hear it.”
Small business networks · Challenge
“The customer you’ll never forget. Three sentences, no names.”
A florist writes: “He bought one rose every Friday for eleven years. One Friday he ordered her funeral flowers, and I didn’t charge him. He still comes in on Fridays. The rose sits on my counter now.”
“I have been trying to write a shop-local campaign for years. My members had it all along. Nobody asked them.”
Small business networks · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many people in this town get a paycheck from a member of this chamber. Reveal at the annual dinner.”
Under 1,000 · 1,000 to 3,000 · 3,000 to 5,000 · More than 5,000
The answer is 6,214. The mayor is in the room when it goes up on the screen, and asks for the slide.
“To city hall we were a club that holds breakfasts. We are six thousand paychecks. I am never walking into a council meeting without that number again.”
Small business networks · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many referrals members passed to each other in here this year. Reveal with your renewal.”
Under 100 · 100 to 400 · 400 to 800 · More than 800
The answer is 1,140, counted from every request marked Solved. Most members guessed under 100. In the comments, people start thanking each other by name.
“Renewal used to be a letter listing benefits. This year it opened with one number, and every member could do the math on what it was worth to them.”
Small business networks · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many years our members have been in business, all added together. Reveal at the annual dinner.”
Under 1,000 · 1,000 to 2,500 · 2,500 to 4,000 · More than 4,000
The answer is 4,380 years. Then two people are asked to stand: Mr. Henderson, 61 years, and Priya, who opened her café nine days ago. He crosses the room to shake her hand.
“I sell membership as networking. What I actually have is four thousand years of people who figured out how to survive, sitting next to someone on day nine.”
Small business networks · Build together
“One line for the person opening their doors for the first time on Monday.”
250 lines. “Pay your taxes first. Everything else is negotiable.” “Your first hire should scare you a little.” “It’s lonely. Join something.” Published with every name on it, and handed out with every new business license in town.
“My welcome packet is a window sticker. My members just wrote the book every new owner needs, and signed it.”
Small business networks · Build together
“One line for the Hendersons. Sixty-one years behind that counter.”
400 lines, from members and from their parents. “You gave me credit in 1988 when the bank wouldn’t.” It is bound and handed over the counter on the last day, by the people who wrote it.
“We were going to give them a plaque and a photo in the newsletter. The town gave them a book.”
Small business networks · Build together
“What you’d tell yourself the week you almost quit. One line.”
“It was a Tuesday in February. It’s always a Tuesday in February.” “Call the landlord before he calls you.” 180 lines. The chamber keeps a printed copy by the front door, and new members read it first.
“Every owner has a week they almost quit. Nobody talks about it, so everyone thinks it was just them. Now it is written down, with names.”
Small business networks · Goals, shared and weekly
“Rosa’s diner flooded on Sunday. 400 taps and our bank sponsor covers her rent while she rebuilds.”
A shared goal, one tap each. The bar fills by noon on Monday. On Tuesday thirty members turn up with mops, which nobody asked for. She reopens in five weeks.
“My sponsor bank used to get a logo on a breakfast banner. This year the whole street watched them keep Rosa open.”
Small business networks · Goals, shared and weekly
“Three high school seniors want to start businesses. 300 taps and our sponsor funds three $1,000 starter grants. Members pick the winners.”
A shared goal, then a vote. One winner is a 17-year-old who fixes bicycles in his mother’s garage. Four members offer him workshop space before the week is out.
“We talk about the next generation at every lunch. This was the first time my members did something about it, and it took them one tap and one vote.”
Small business networks · Goals, shared and weekly
“This week: walk into one member’s business you’ve never been in. Say hello. Tap when you’ve done it.”
A weekly goal. A bookstore that joined three weeks ago gets five owners through its door in one week. One of them buys twenty books for her waiting room.
“New members come to two breakfasts and vanish, because nobody ever walked through their door. This week five people did.”
Alumni and peer networks · Quick play
“Be honest, no names: when did you last hear from us about something other than money?”
This month · This year · I can’t remember · Never
3,200 alumni answer, more than open the magazine. 63% tap “I can’t remember” or “Never.” One comment: “I gave $50 once in 2011. You’ve called me every spring since. Nobody has ever asked how I am.”
“I have been measuring my alumni by whether they give. They have been measuring me by whether I ever call for any other reason. They are right.”
Alumni and peer networks · Quick play
“Homecoming has one open slot this year. What do we do with it?”
Another tailgate · A dinner for first-generation graduates · Mentor speed-dating with seniors · A memorial walk for classmates we’ve lost
The first-generation dinner wins. 140 people come, most of whom have never been back. A 1987 graduate stands up: “I was the first in my family. I have never been in a room of us.”
“We plan homecoming for the people who always come. One vote filled a room with people who never had.”
Alumni and peer networks · Quick play
“Five years out, no names: how are you really doing?”
Thriving · Fine · Lost, but faking it · Starting over
38% of young alumni tap “Lost, but faking it.” One comment: “I thought everyone else in my class had it figured out. I’ve seen their LinkedIn.”
“Young alumni don’t ignore us because they don’t care. They are ashamed they are not further along, and everything we send them is a success story. Now I know what they need, and it is not a gala invitation.”
Alumni and peer networks · Ask and help
“Laid off on Tuesday after 14 years. I need an introduction.”
By Friday, eleven alumni have replied with a name and a phone number. One of them, class of ’91, had not opened an alumni email in years. The asker marks three replies Helpful and writes: “I didn’t know anyone here even knew my name.”
“The network is what we promise at graduation. This is the first time I watched it work, and I could see exactly who made it work.”
Alumni and peer networks · Ask and help
“First salary negotiation Thursday. I’m the first in my family to have a salary to negotiate. What do I say?”
An alumna fifteen years ahead of her answers in one line: “Name your number first. Then stop talking.” Friday: “I got it. Thank you.”
“Our first-generation graduates don’t have an uncle to call. They have us. That is the whole point of an alumni network, and we had reduced it to a magazine.”
Alumni and peer networks · Ask and help
“Just moved to Denver. I know nobody. Any alumni want to grab coffee?”
Six say yes. It becomes a monthly breakfast. Two years later the Denver chapter has 90 people and its own scholarship.
“I spent years trying to start regional chapters from headquarters. The Denver chapter started because one lonely person asked one question.”
Alumni and peer networks · Challenge
“Post a photo of the person here who changed your life. One sentence on what they did.”
Professors, a coach, a dining hall cook. A surgeon posts a custodian: “Mr. Reyes unlocked the lab for me at 6 a.m. for two years so I could work before class.” Mr. Reyes is retired. His granddaughter shows him the post.
“We name buildings after donors. The people my alumni actually remember never gave us a dollar. They gave a key at 6 a.m.”
Alumni and peer networks · Challenge
“Two photos: move-in day, and today.”
2003: her father carrying boxes in his work uniform. Last Saturday: the same dorm, her own daughter, and her father again. “He took that day off without pay in 2003. He was here Saturday. He wore a suit.”
“My whole fundraising case is statistics about social mobility. It was standing in a dorm parking lot in a suit. Nobody asked.”
Alumni and peer networks · Challenge
“What’s on your desk from your time here? One photo.”
Mugs, a cleat, a lab notebook. One framed letter: “The dean’s letter putting me on academic probation. I keep it next to my PhD.”
“We only ever celebrate the alumni who sailed through. The ones who nearly didn’t make it are the ones who would do anything for this place.”
Alumni and peer networks · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many alumni hired another alum this year. Reveal at homecoming.”
Under 25 · 25 to 75 · 75 to 150 · More than 150
The answer is 218, counted from every request marked Solved and one follow-up tap. Most people guessed under 25.
“‘Join the network’ has been a slogan for fifty years. This year it is a number.”
Alumni and peer networks · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many of this year’s students are the first in their family to go to college. Reveal on Giving Day.”
1 in 20 · 1 in 10 · 1 in 5 · 1 in 3
It is one in three. Four thousand alumni are waiting for the answer when Giving Day opens, and a third of them recognize themselves in it.
“I send the same appeal every year. This year four thousand people were waiting to find out a number, and then I asked.”
Alumni and peer networks · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many times an alum answered a student’s question in here this year. Reveal Friday.”
Under 200 · 200 to 600 · 600 to 1,200 · More than 1,200
The answer is 1,902 answers, to 640 students. Both numbers surprise both sides.
“Students think alumni are names on buildings. Alumni think students don’t want to hear from them. Nineteen hundred answers says they have both been wrong.”
Alumni and peer networks · Build together
“One line for Professor Okafor. She taught here for 38 years. She died on Sunday.”
600 lines in three days. “She failed my first paper and told me I was better than it. She was right.” Printed, every name on it, and given to her family at the memorial.
“We were going to run a paragraph at the back of the magazine. Six hundred people had something to say and nowhere to say it. Her family now knows who she was to us.”
Alumni and peer networks · Build together
“One line for the class arriving on Monday.”
400 lines, handed out at orientation with every name. “Go to office hours. Nobody goes. That’s why you should.” “Call home. They won’t ask. Call anyway.”
“We give first-years a lanyard and a map. Four hundred alumni just gave them the thing they will remember, and now four hundred alumni care how that class turns out.”
Alumni and peer networks · Build together
“One line for a senior who doesn’t have a job yet. It’s April.”
“I graduated with nothing lined up. I’m fine. You will be too. Message me.” Nearly every line ends with an open door. Seniors start walking through them that week.
“Career services has three staff for two thousand seniors. I just found four hundred volunteers, and it cost each of them one sentence.”
Alumni and peer networks · Goals, shared and weekly
“Three students earned internships they can’t afford to take, because the internships don’t pay. 300 taps and our sponsor covers their summer rent.”
A shared goal, one tap each. The bar fills before lunch. At homecoming the three of them stand up and thank “the three hundred.”
“I have never been able to get young alumni to give. They can’t afford to. They can tap. And the ones who tap this year are the ones who give in ten.”
Alumni and peer networks · Goals, shared and weekly
“1,000 taps unlocks a trustee’s gift to the fund that gets students home when a parent is dying.”
A shared goal. It takes a day and a half. In February the fund flies a sophomore home to Manila. She makes it in time.
“Our participation rate has fallen for a decade because we only count dollars. A thousand alumni just took part, and a trustee was glad to pay for it.”
Alumni and peer networks · Goals, shared and weekly
“This week: answer one student’s question. Tap when you have.”
A weekly goal. A junior asks if it’s too late to switch majors. An alum who switched twice answers in ten minutes. By summer she is interning at his firm.
“Every alum says they would love to help students, and none of them knows how. It turns out the how is one question a week.”
Cause based communities · Quick play
“There is $5,000 left in the winter fund. You decide where it goes.”
Coats for 200 kids · A month of hot meals · Heating repairs for 12 seniors
A woman who gives $15 a month votes for the coats. Two weeks later she gets the photo: a line of kids zipping up. The caption says: “You chose this.”
“My major donors get a say, a site visit and a lunch. My $15 donors get a receipt. This gives every donor the major-donor feeling for the price of one tap.”
Cause based communities · Quick play
“No names: why did you first give to us?”
Someone asked me · It happened to my family · I saw it with my own eyes · I honestly don’t remember
44% tap “It happened to my family.” One comment: “My brother. 2016. I’ve never told anyone here.”
“I have been writing appeals as if my donors were generous strangers. Nearly half of them are family. They are not giving to us. They are giving to someone they lost.”
Cause based communities · Quick play
“We can keep one Saturday program running through the winter. Volunteers, you decide.”
The hot meal · The clothing room · Homework club · The shower van
The hot meal wins. Thirty of the people who voted for it sign up for winter shifts the same day, without being asked.
“When I decide, I have to recruit. When they decide, they show up.”
Cause based communities · Ask and help
“My mom died last month. I have her wheelchair, her walker and a hospital bed. Who can use them?”
By evening a volunteer has collected all three for a family bringing their father home from hospital on Friday. She marks it Solved and writes: “Mom would have liked that.”
“We only ever ask our people for money. They have so much more they are aching to give, and we never gave them anywhere to offer it.”
Cause based communities · Ask and help
“The freezer died at 6 this morning. 400 pounds of chicken. I need a truck and a freezer in the next three hours.”
Solved in forty minutes. A supporter who owns a restaurant has a walk-in freezer and sends his own van. Nothing is lost. He has given $20 a year for a decade, and nobody knew he had a restaurant.
“My supporters would have moved mountains. My only way to reach them was a newsletter that goes out on Thursdays.”
Cause based communities · Ask and help
“I can offer a lift to chemo on Thursdays. I did that drive with my wife for two years. I know where to park.”
Four families take him up on it over the year. One of them writes: “He never talks unless I want to. He just knows.”
“He was never going to write us a big check. He had Thursdays, a car and a reason. I had never given him anywhere to offer them.”
Cause based communities · Challenge
“Two photos: your first day here, and today.”
She chose to share it, and nothing goes up until you approve it. A Saturday volunteer posts herself at nine, in the meal line, holding her mother’s hand. The second photo is last weekend, behind the same table, serving. Her caption: “I ate here before I served here.”
“I have spent years hunting for a story for the year-end letter. The best one we ever had was standing in my kitchen for six years. Nobody asked her.”
Cause based communities · Challenge
“Why you showed up. One photo, one sentence.”
A volunteer at the animal rescue posts an old dog asleep on her feet: “He was returned three times. I was returned twice, as a foster kid. We figured it out.”
“My volunteer form asks for availability. Nobody ever asked them why. The why is the whole organization.”
Cause based communities · Challenge
“Something you made with your hands for someone you’ll never meet. One photo.”
Quilts, birdhouses, packed backpacks. Edith, 91, posts a pile of tiny hats: “Number 1,400. My hands shake now, so they’re a bit crooked. The babies don’t mind.”
“She has given us more than any name on our donor wall, and she is not on our donor wall.”
Cause based communities · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many kids slept in a bed of their own for the first time this year, because of you. Reveal Sunday at 6.”
Under 50 · 50 to 150 · 150 to 300 · More than 300
Donors lock a guess on Friday. On Sunday evening hundreds of them open the reveal in the same minute: 312, and one photo of one bed with a dinosaur blanket.
“My impact report is a 24-page PDF almost nobody opens. This made my donors wait all weekend to find out what their money did.”
Cause based communities · Guess and reveal
“Guess how many hours our volunteers gave this year. Reveal at the volunteer dinner.”
Under 10,000 · 10,000 to 25,000 · 25,000 to 50,000 · More than 50,000
The answer is 61,400 hours. That is thirty full-time staff. The board chair is in the room and writes the number on his hand.
“My board thinks of volunteers as a nice extra. They are thirty full-time employees I don’t pay. After Friday, my board knows it too.”
Cause based communities · Guess and reveal
“Guess how long the average family waits for a home from us. Reveal Sunday.”
3 months · 6 months · 12 months · 19 months
It is 19 months. The reveal ends with one line: “For the Ramirez family, the wait ends Saturday.”
“I have written ‘the need is great’ in every letter for ten years. Nobody feels ‘great need.’ Everybody felt nineteen months.”
Cause based communities · Build together
“The Ramirez family gets their keys on Saturday. Add one line of welcome. We will read every one at the door.”
212 donors add a line. On Saturday a volunteer reads them aloud on the doorstep while the mother holds the keys. Every donor gets the photo.
“Most of my donors have never met a single person their money helped. This week their own words were read aloud on a doorstep.”
Cause based communities · Build together
“One line for Mr. Alvarez. He has driven the Saturday van for nine years and has never once been thanked in public.”
86 lines, some from families on his route. “He carried the boxes up three floors every week and pretended it was nothing.” It is read to him at the volunteer dinner. He signs up for a tenth year on the spot.
“My best volunteers leave quietly too. Nobody tells them what they meant until the farewell party, and by then they have already decided.”
Cause based communities · Build together
“One line for the person who walks through our door for the first time tomorrow, scared.”
“Nobody here will ask you why.” “I walked in eleven years ago. I run the front desk now. Ask for Denise.” The lines are printed and hung by the entrance, every name on them.
“We spent $4,000 on a welcome sign. The real one was written by the people who once stood on that mat.”
Cause based communities · Goals, shared and weekly
“3,000 taps and our sponsor funds 3,000 meals. It costs you nothing. Tap.”
A shared goal, one tap each. A man who was laid off in the spring and had to cancel his monthly gift taps. So does his daughter. The bar crosses 3,000 on Thursday night.
“Half my list cannot afford to give this month, and until now I had nothing else to ask them for. A tap from someone broke counts exactly as much as a tap from someone rich. He will remember that we let him help.”
Cause based communities · Goals, shared and weekly
“We need 75 people on Saturday. If 75 tap ‘I’m in,’ our sponsor doubles the food order.”
A shared goal. 83 tap. 79 show up, which has never happened. The last ten taps come in the final hour, when the bar is sitting at 87%.
“I used to beg for volunteers one email at a time. A bar that is nearly full recruits better than I ever have. Nobody wants to be the reason it didn’t fill.”
Cause based communities · Goals, shared and weekly
“In the board’s private group: call three donors this week. Say thank you. Ask for nothing. Tap after each call.”
A weekly goal. A board member rings a woman who has given $40 a month for six years. “I’m only calling to say thank you.” A long pause. “Nobody has ever done that.” He taps Count one and dials the next name.
“My board dreads asking for money, so they do nothing. It turns out they love saying thank you. And every fundraiser knows the thanked donor is the one who gives again.”
Conferences & events · Quick play
“What would make this conference worth your time?”
A useful introduction · A practical answer · A new supplier · A fresh idea
Attendees choose what matters to them. Use the replies to open conversations around those needs.
A shared reason to attend can become a first connection.
Conferences & events · Quick play
“Which problem should our next follow-up session tackle?”
Finding customers · Building a team · Using AI · Managing growth
Members choose from topics your team can actually host. Invite the winning topic into a paid workshop or community discussion.
The next event can start with what people ask for.
Conferences & events · Quick play
“After today’s session, what would you like more of?”
A practical example · A speaker Q&A · A peer discussion · A guide to try
Use the responses to decide what to share next and invite the speaker back into the conversation.
The end of the session need not be the end of its usefulness.
Conferences & events · Ask & help
“What is one problem you hope someone at this conference can help you solve?”
Invite peers to offer an introduction, useful experience, or a first reply before the doors open.
A name on a badge becomes someone you have a reason to meet.
Conferences & events · Ask & help
“What are you looking for that you have not found on the exhibition floor?”
Attendees describe a specific need. Relevant exhibitors can answer and point to their Page for more detail.
A useful answer gives a booth visit a purpose.
Conferences & events · Ask & help
“What question did you think of after the conference ended?”
Keep the thread open for speakers and attendees to respond when the answer can still help.
The community holds the conversation the timetable could not fit.
Conferences & events · Challenge
“Try one idea from a session this week. Share what happened.”
Invite a small experiment and a short update. Members can compare what worked in different circumstances.
Learning becomes visible through something someone actually tried.
Conferences & events · Challenge
“Introduce two people here who could help each other, and tell them why.”
Ask permission before making the introduction and keep the reason specific. Let the conversation continue privately if they prefer.
The network becomes useful when people help connect it.
Conferences & events · Challenge
“Return to one exhibitor you met. Ask the question you wish you had asked first.”
Invite attendees to share a useful insight from the follow-up without turning the thread into a sales pitch.
A second conversation can be more valuable than a first impression.
Conferences & events · Build together
“Add one practical tip you wish you had known before your first conference.”
Collect advice on preparing, meeting people, and choosing sessions into a shared welcome guide.
Experienced attendees help write the welcome for newcomers.
Conferences & events · Build together
“Share one resource that helps put today’s topic into practice, and say why.”
Build a useful collection of references with brief explanations. Credit each contributor.
The room knows more than any one speaker can fit into a session.
Conferences & events · Build together
“Add one question you would love the keynote speaker to answer.”
Group related questions and use them to prepare a focused follow-up discussion.
Attendees help shape the conversation instead of only receiving it.
Conferences & events · Collective goal
“Help us collect 30 welcome tips for first-time attendees. Add one short tip.”
Set a target suited to your event and let each contribution move the shared collection forward.
Welcoming becomes a contribution the whole community can make.
Conferences & events · Collective goal
“Can we collect 50 practical offers of help for our event’s community project?”
Let members offer time, skills, or equipment. Keep the goal realistic and share what the project needs.
A cause gives people another reason to work together.
Conferences & events · Collective goal
“Let’s build 25 answers to the questions our newest colleagues keep asking.”
Invite one useful answer at a time and assemble the contributions into a community resource.
The event leaves behind knowledge its people helped create.
Conferences & events · Guess & reveal
“What do you think is the biggest obstacle in this case study?”
Use a real case you have permission to share. Collect guesses before revealing the outcome and the speaker’s explanation.
Curiosity makes room for a lesson people want to hear.
Conferences & events · Guess & reveal
“Can you guess the year of this photo from our first conference?”
Reveal the year and the story behind the image. Invite returning attendees to add a memory.
An event’s history becomes something its people can share.
Conferences & events · Guess & reveal
“Can you guess what problem this exhibitor’s prototype was designed to solve?”
Use a partner-approved image. Reveal the problem and invite practical questions about the solution.
A sponsor can contribute a useful story as well as an advertisement.
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